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Dr Vicki Connop's avatar

I resonate deeply with this. These days, my practice is mainly EMDR, IFS, and somatic work. I deeply love each of these approaches, and especially EMDR where I see the most significant transformations happen for people, through tapping into their own innate healing capacity.

I really appreciate Sarah's point about the difference between formal trauma therapy versus the Instagram-informed trauma work that seems to be ubiquitous these days. I completely agree about knowing the 'rules' or traditional paradigms before deviating from them. A really thoughtful and nuanced perspective, thank you.

And thanks for the footnote link to my Substack 🙏

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Sarah Teresa Cook's avatar

I'm so glad to hear all this, Vicki! Thanks for reading & sharing <3

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Kaitlyn Elizabeth's avatar

As always, thank you for sharing the resonance Vicki <3

I also loved that sentiment about knowing before deviating. As a life-long rule follower it's been terrifying and liberating to deviate with intention lately.

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Sarah Teresa Cook's avatar

“to deviate with intention” is a great phrase.

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Emma Del Rey's avatar

I appreciate this so much, specifically hearing another neurodivergent’s perspective and experience on therapy. I kept nodding along and thinking me and Sarah would be great friends.

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Sarah Teresa Cook's avatar

This made me so happy to read!! <3 I bet you're right :)

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Emma Del Rey's avatar

I subscribed to you for that reason.

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Kaitlyn Elizabeth's avatar

I'm so happy to hear this resonated--and you totally would!

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Claire Fitzsimmons's avatar

Thank you for sharing such a gorgeous conversation and for taking therapy outside the room. This conversation normalized all the twists and turns of my own experiences of therapy.

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Kaitlyn Elizabeth's avatar

I love the way you put that "taking therapy outside the room." That is a hope I had but hadn't exactly put those words to it. Thank you for reading and sharing how you connected with it <3 It means so much to me and I know for Sarah, too!

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Sarah Teresa Cook's avatar

I am so glad to read this, Claire :)

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Lindsey Kontovich's avatar

What a beautiful dialogue between the two of you! Sarah’s transparency and honesty about her therapy process and history are so thoughtfully shared and I love your comments that are woven throughout! Your questions are so spot on and I’m hoping that as people share more about their therapy experiences that those who are anxious to begin will see how meaningful and helpful it can be.

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Kaitlyn Elizabeth's avatar

I'm so glad you got a chance to be immersed in Sarah's wisdom and honesty!

Me too! Me too! Not only that but I have learned so much even from the few of these I've done.

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Sarah Teresa Cook's avatar

Thank you so much Lindsey! This really warmed my heart to read <3

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Lindsey Kontovich's avatar

Your wisdom and hard work you’ve done in therapy is so inspiring 💗

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Sarah Teresa Cook's avatar

:'D

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